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Rest in Glory Eternal

by Sandra Bennett
TCF

5 Nov
~ Dave, in Florence, Italy, alongside the Arno River ~

“Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting:
The soul that rises with us, our life’s star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting,
And cometh from afar:
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But trailing clouds of glory do we come,
From God who is our home.”

~ William Wordsworth ~



Dave, to paraphrase Lewis, 
“your absence is like the sky, spread over everything.” 
Today, marks two years of utter despair. Had I not the Godly example of 
Aunt Esther, Aunt Bonnie, Grandmother Hattie and Grandmother Margaret, I don’t think I could have borne your death. Had I not watched and waited for you for six years, the surprise would have completely overwhelmed me.

Had I not God and His promises, 
surely I would have done something awful. 
Even so, dear God in heaven, when does it ever abate?

Bless God for His faithfulness, mercy, love and grace. 
Amen.



Blessings ~ to have been Dave’s companion and wife for twenty-two years ~ to be God’s daughter, safely kept ~ God’s promises, known and unknown ~ God’s blessings, known and unknown ~

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  3. Meegan, Dreaming in the Gloaming says

    November 19, 2013 at 12:46 am

    Sending you so much love Sandra! You will be in my prayers.

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  4. Vicki Boster says

    November 15, 2013 at 9:15 pm

    Dearest Sandra- I know it's a heartache that never really stops. It must have been especially hard on the anniversary date–

    Sending love
    Vicki

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  5. M.K. says

    November 9, 2013 at 9:22 pm

    Aching today for your empty sadness. There are no words. May God give you grace, peace.

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  6. Elizabeth@ Pine Cones and Acorns says

    November 9, 2013 at 1:54 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  7. Deanna says

    November 7, 2013 at 8:10 pm

    you are a very brave woman!
    praying for you God's comfort,
    d

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  8. Vilisi says

    November 7, 2013 at 6:15 am

    Thinking of you, dear Sandra…

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  9. LindaSue says

    November 7, 2013 at 1:31 am

    Grief is a sneaky thing – about the time we think we've developed an immunity – a new strain comes along and we are infected anew. I pray for your heart's comfort – being widow is just awful – virtual hugs sent to you and as always – prayers for those of us who are Sisters in da 'Hood (widowhood)
    I love you friend –

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  10. Donna says

    November 6, 2013 at 11:48 pm

    My heart breaks at the pain you have endured. I hope and pray that you find the comfort you seek.

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  11. Sparky says

    November 6, 2013 at 1:22 pm

    Sweet post. Heartfelt prayers for you. God bless you my friend.

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  12. FlowerLady Lorraine says

    November 6, 2013 at 11:28 am

    Dear Sandra ~ My heart goes out to you for your loss. That photo of your husband is wonderful. May you continue to be surrounded and filled with God's love, peace, strength and healing.

    Love and hugs ~ FlowerLady

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  13. Kim says

    November 6, 2013 at 1:03 am

    I am sending you warm thoughts today. Your bravery will carry you through this day and other tough ones to follow.

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  14. GLENDA CHILDERS says

    November 6, 2013 at 12:27 am

    I love the picture of Dave. Two long years … and how you have shared your heart and your loss with us. Thank you, sweet Sandra.

    Sending love and prayers,
    Glenda

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  15. dori says

    November 5, 2013 at 11:45 pm

    …For those, who are te own of God, every loss is a big win." (Dori diary a few days ago….)

    Near you in heart,
    your Dori

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  16. Patrice says

    November 5, 2013 at 11:32 pm

    God bless you and give you His peace. I care.

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  17. Quinn says

    November 5, 2013 at 11:12 pm

    My thoughts are with you, Sandra.

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  18. Karen says

    November 5, 2013 at 8:57 pm

    XO

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  19. suziqu's thread works says

    November 5, 2013 at 8:55 pm

    Such amazing words quoted here by Wordsworth so helpful during this time for both you and me also bearing a loss.
    I wish for you continued strength and love,
    Suzy

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  20. NanaDiana says

    November 5, 2013 at 8:51 pm

    I am so sorry, Sandra. i wish I could help you more. God bless you- xo Diana

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  21. Dewena Callis says

    November 5, 2013 at 7:55 pm

    I'm so sorry for this pain that still crushes you, Sandra, for the loneliness that remains. He had a wonderful face, the face of a real man.

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  22. EvalinaMaria says

    November 5, 2013 at 7:18 pm

    My prayers are with you.

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  23. Hartwood Roses says

    November 5, 2013 at 7:10 pm

    Though you and I have never actually met, I think about you and Dave every time I go to Hollywood Cemetery to work … I even stopped by to greet him when I was there last Thursday.

    That's what this blogging adventure of ours does … we gravitate to people we think we'd like, we get to know one another, and we care.

    Hugs and Prayers for you today.

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  24. kathyinozarks says

    November 5, 2013 at 6:40 pm

    praying for you
    Hugs from the ozarks
    Kathy

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  25. Timi says

    November 5, 2013 at 6:26 pm

    God be with you!!! ♥♥♥

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  26. magsmcc says

    November 5, 2013 at 6:21 pm

    Your life will yet be full of blessing and joy, oh fabulous Sandra xx

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  27. Anonymous says

    November 5, 2013 at 6:05 pm

    God bless you, dear friend.

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  28. Dianna says

    November 5, 2013 at 5:59 pm

    Sandra, my heart aches for you. I can not imagine what you have learned to deal with by the grace of God. I know that day comes when we all have this to face. I pray when my time comes that I can be all that I see in you because of Him. I've been married for almost 42 years to my Strong Heart…but whether it be 22 or 42 the pain will be the same. Hugs and prayers for you, dear Sandra.

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  29. Lee says

    November 5, 2013 at 5:52 pm

    Praying for you too. May God's strength carry you through the times when you are overwhelmed, and wrap you in His arms amidst the loneliness. Hugs.

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  30. Lynn says

    November 5, 2013 at 4:57 pm

    2 years is not long enough to tame such loss-pain after 22 years-I am at a loss for words. Courage..

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  31. Divine Theatre says

    November 5, 2013 at 4:25 pm

    I am so sorry. I am praying for you, my beautiful friend.

    xo

    Ande

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  32. GretchenJoanna says

    November 5, 2013 at 3:35 pm

    Praying for you today, Sandra.

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